Please help me, I REALLY hate my family?

Well, unfortunately, you really aren't able to control your family situation at this point in your life. You just have to survive it. Try focusing your attention on the parts of your life you can control. Get involved in some things you are interested in, and start having fun again. Probably when you aren't so miserable, you will start making friends. It's tough about your dad. Sorry that you miss him, can you call and e-mail?